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Sometime in your spiritual journey you may have to select a new church. A move to a new community or city or family changes are two reasons that often spark such a selection. Then too, there are times when spiritual growth makes it mandatory to move to a more challenging worship experience. Sometimes, unfortunately, people seek a new church environment when they have become hurt by, or disenchanted with, their present church.
Whatever the reason for selecting a new church, it can be easier than you think.
Beware, however, unlike some clothing, there is no one-size-fits-all church. Nonetheless, there are several factors that you can consider in selecting a new church. The most important factors in the long run include ministry style, activities, pastoral care and size.
As you begin your new church search, make an effort to visit several different churches to get a feel for what your community or city offers. Consider asking friends and family members for more detailed information about their churches, but don’t be totally swayed by their choices. Remember, church attendance and membership is a personal decision that only you and your family can make.
To help narrow your choice as you visit prospective churches. Ask yourself:
What ministry style do I enjoy most? Some people prefer to listen to preaching, while others prefer a teaching style of ministry. By selecting a church that offers your preferred style of ministry, chances are that you will not only be more comfortable, but will also make the leap from attendee to member.
Do activities cater to my lifestyle? Whatever your marital status (single, married, divorced, widowed) it’s very important to choose a church that offers activities based on your lifestyle. Check out the times and locations of weekly worship services, bible studies, and other activities. Do they fit into your schedule? Are they accessible? Accessibility includes convenience and mobility (especially for the physically challenged). Do they offer age-appropriate children’s activities – an important issue if you have children or plan to in the near future. All activities should provide meaningful opportunities for you to meet and mingle with others members of the church, as well as opportunities for you to grow and develop spiritually.
How does pastoral care work? Each church handles pastoral care differently. Determine whether the church you’re considering has a non-pushy, follow-up mechanism for checking with prospective and new members. Share any concerns you may have about how prayer requests and other pressing spiritual needs are handled.
Is the size comfortable for you? Size should not deter you from a church unless, generally, you really can’t cope with anything to large or too small. If you do have a size limitation, however, stick with what you feel comfortable.
Answering these questions will help you to focus on one or two churches that would be best suited to you and your family. If you’re still stuck on two, however, decide to visit each one for a month or so. Afterwards, make a decision and stick to it. Chances are you’ll be happy you did.
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